Dating in Singapore

Have you ever wondered what dating is like in Singapore? Well, so have we! As much as we’d love to tell you that we have found the perfect formula of finding love in Singapore, sadly that isn’t the case.

Love is such a complicated topic that whenever there is a discussion about love, most of them just come to an inconclusive conclusion. Some people spend their whole lives looking for love and Singapore is no exception. Although there are some Singaporeans married to their careers, it does not mean that Singaporeans are not open to dating. Attraction plays a great deal in the dating game as Singaporeans admire it when you take good care of yourself.

Here is where most people are mistaken when it comes to looks, most people think that you have to look good to be attractive but in reality, you just really have to look like you take good care of yourself. Why shouldn’t you? Buying yourself quality clothing and taking good care of your body are signs of self-respect and once you learn how to respect yourself, others will slowly notice and even respect you for that.

The second thing you have to pay attention to is boundaries. Know how far you are expected to get yourself involved and how intimate you are supposed to get. Now before you go out in the dating scene, ask yourself this, why am I dating? Is it because of boredom, loneliness, adventure, or do you really just want to meet that significant other who you want to build your future with?

If your answer is the latter, then dating in Singapore is perfect. Although the casual fling is still possible, most people in Singapore do not like wasting their time, especially when it comes to relationships. People in Singapore are genuine. If they like you, they will show it and vice versa. Although it may get a little complicated later on, if your relationship is worth fighting for, then why not fight for it?

The last thing you need to know about dating a Singaporean and this is the most important part of all, where do you see yourself in the future with your partner? Direction is important in every relationship and this does not exclude Singapore. It’s not enough that you and your partner get into the same car, you have to drive towards your destination together.

5 Telltale Signs That He Respects You

 

It takes more than just love to keep a relationship happy and strong. For a relationship to last, you and your partner should always treat each other respectfully. No woman should allow her man to ridicule her for the sake of his contentment. It is important to recognize the signs that he respects you because trust, love, and respect are the key ingredients to a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

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  1. He Listens To You

If your boyfriend listens when you talk and responds appropriately, that’s a clear sign of attentiveness and respect. When a person truly loves you, your thoughts greatly matters for him because this is the only way for him to know what you have in mind and can truly please you.

  1. He Lets You Feel Wanted

Organizing time spent between friends and lovers is a tricky thing for most guys. In most cases, guys don’t want to skip boys’ night out for their girlfriends nor bring you with him while hanging out with friends. However, if he cancels a night out or welcomes you to his circle every once in a while, you can almost guarantee that he’s a keeper.

  1. He Teases You Cutely, Not Cruelly

Do you remember when your mother used to tell you that when a boy teases you, it’s because he likes you? While the same thing applies to adults, your man’s jokes on you should not hurt or offend you. If you become the constant subject of his jokes or he teases you in a way that everyone could hear, it’s an obvious sign that he doesn’t respect you.

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  1. He Shows Up On time

Nothing could be more frustrating than waiting for someone who’s notoriously late. If a man cannot put in the extra effort to be somewhere on time for you, take this as a warning sign. Discuss this with him. If he still doesn’t improve, consider the obvious—he simply doesn’t care.

  1. He Gives You Your Freedom

If your beau lets you live your life the way you want it and doesn’t have objections with you spending time with your friends regularly, it means he respects and trusts you. Although he should want to be with you, he should also respect your individuality and independence.

Love and respect should go hand in hand. Without the latter, it’s difficult to sustain a lasting relationship. Like any other types of relationship (e.g. parents-daughter/son relationship, employer-employee relationship, teacher-student relationship, etc.), respect makes two different persons/parties live harmoniously together.

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