How to Create a Good First Impression Through Body Language

Two components make up any first impression. Everything you say and everything you do. When talking about first impressions, most of the advice people give will be on verbal communication. But non-verbal communication is also a very important dynamic in creating a good first impression.

That’s why you should also pay better attention to your own body language! So, without further ado, here are some tips to help you create a good first impression non-verbally.

Hold a good posture

When it comes to body language, one of the first things you should pay attention to is your posture. For one, it is the most actionable and it also really shows a lot about your health and confidence. So, stand up straight but don’t stay stiff! Keep yourself upright but let your body relax.

This is a very simple thing but it will surely affect how people see you. No matter what the situation, having good posture will be a reliable foundation when creating a first impression.

Don’t mask something you’re insecure about

The ironic thing about masking something you’re insecure about is that you’ll make it even more noticeable. For example, maybe you’re embarrassed about your teeth so you cover your mouth when you smile or simply not smile at all.

Others who spend a long time with you will start to notice what you’re doing and come to conclusions that you’re insecure about your teeth. The best thing to do here, really, is to embrace your flaws! Most people who see you accepting yourself will find that quality very appealing.

When it comes to eye contact…

People will advise you to always make eye contact, but doing it too much actually makes you look more like a creep. Of course, getting stared at would make any person feel uncomfortable. So, strike a balance with maintaining eye contact and choosing to look towards another direction.

Normally, you’ll be able to determine when to hold eye contact based on the context and the overall situation. Be mindful of when you’re already staring too much or when you’re not making any eye contact at all.

Point your feet to the direction of the person you’re talking to

This makes you face the person you’re talking to straight. Make your feet, chest, and face (basically your whole body) is facing the other person. This shows that you’re putting all your attention on him/her. It will feel like an unnoticeable thing in your perspective, but to the person you’re talking to, this will be very convincing.

For example, if you talk to a person and your body is not facing towards them, it signals that you already want to leave. So if you want to make a better first impression, make it clear through body language that your attention is fully on the other person.

 

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